Hi everyone SA & CW - thanks so much for caring I'm doing OK, just scrambling to attend to everything before I leave tomorrow. D is leaving today, have to get her packed and off to the airport. Have to cut the grass, do some accounting talk to our accountant do some banking, clean the pool and start packing myself and the list goes on....
On Saturday I was invited to dinner at our good friend's (married couple) house, this is the first time that I was with them since the split up. I was actually upset that they never contacted me...but the male friend was seeing my H and was taking him to the airport whenever he would go and see OW. I guess that they just felt stuck in the middle. Maybe it was for the best that we waited this long to see each other. I'm in control now, I'm not needy and crying as I would have been in the beginning.
We had a great time, I got there at 5pm and left after midnight...Of course we also talked about H....they can't believe what H has done...."you guys had such a strong marriage, why would he do this?". I didn't blame H or showed anger at him...just facts. They had a hard time understanding how could a previously sane, caring H & father behave this way. And they think that he will "crash & burn". My friends offered to pick-up my mail while I'm gone and to pick me up from the airport...great.
WH is arriving tonight few hours after D leaves, so he won't even see her. Accept for one text and FB message that D didn't reply to, he wasn't in touch with us until yesterday when he called D to say hi and told her that our friend (yes the same friend that I had dinner with) that was supposed to get him at the airport, can't now and he has nobody to pick him (and OW) up. D said that she felt sorry for him and offered that she will ask her BF if he can...didn't ask her if that's actually happening.
I received an e-mail from WH last night...telling me when he is arriving and wanting to "connect" about business and to pick-up his rent cheque.... I replied that it's OK that we can meet at Starbucks and gave him time that's convenient for me....well it's not really convenient tomorrow, but what can I do....not looking forward to seeing him
Hope everyone is doing good (((hugs)))
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