Thanks so much Kat--yes, this had to happen. I have been told by my stepmom, who worked in the legal field many years (my dad was an attorney) that I don't have to do anything yet.
I am livid he took my S to the apointment WITH him!! There was no reason to take my S who is almost 15. He could have stayed home for an hour. I was gone only an hour and had NO idea he would do this. WHY would he take my S to an INITIAL consultation like that!!!
Kat, I appreciate your hanging in here with me. I think I'm going to soon be heading down your way (to surviving). Do I even TRY to DB at this point? I don't really know what I am dealing with here...but improving myself has NOT worked at improving the R. I have always been so positive that if there weren't drugs or an affair, most will respond to positive changes. But mine has not...
