I really hear all of what you guys are saying. But as I read more and more and more about affairs and WAS I have come to this realization:
SHE seems to be applying (probably unknowingly) the techniques WE are using ourselves.
1) She is out of the house an enormous amount of time 2) She has TONS of friends and family to lean on for support, and uses them 3) She doesn't talk to me except for divorce related matters. She appears to be in "protection" phase 4) She APPEARS very happy alot of the time. But she could be faking it until she makes it too just like me 5) She seems to have accepted her reality as it is and could be happy if it "goes either way".
But for me, it just felt REALLY good to get some attention from women.
Keep getting that type of attention. Don't rub it in her face, and don't $hit where you sleep. If you are going to have a chance with her, she needs to see that part of you again.
