Thanks Shelldoll. I did post in Newcomers, but I'm not getting much feedback there either. There have always been issues. My H has some very difficult traits. He used to routinely engaged in namecalling, screaming, silent treatment, etc. That improved after I set firm boundaries. However, then we seemed to move into a limbo and had long periods of ssm. I would make efforts to change that even though I felt little desire, he would do nothing but complain.
There are several good things about him and we do parent well together. I honestly don't know if our M could work as I don't feel it has ever had a fair shake. So, I would like to bust this current D idea to find out if we can make it better.
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.
