She definitely thinks she has the reins to this buggy. But you did set a boundary when your reserved the right to not be cheek kissed. (Gosh! I hate cheek kissing .... it's like being kissed by your dad or something. Blegh! So passionless! I don't need a French kiss every time my significant other leaves the room, but dammit, how about a decent peck on the lips.)
Rant over.
I do agree with Puppy that she seems to think that she has time to decide on reconciliation and all that that entails, or cutting things off. The pendulum swings. This is sounding like the beginning when you guys were being 'friends' and y'all had family time, etc. I am glad you have a separate life now, to balance this out.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim