Humans, after you strip away all of our mumbo-jumbo and fancy phrases, utilize a very primitive push-pull relationship dynamic. I'm willing to bet anything that your husband still feels your "pull."
i've described the "work" that i've been doing. would you change any of it? if he still feels the pull, where in my "work" is that coming from so i can tweak things?
in my head, none of my activities involve him so i feel like i've dropped the rope and i may not see where the 'pull' is coming from.
i think the ongoing separation agreement is what's hurting me. i have no control over that - it's being handled by l and i never talk about that.
