1. Discussing his marital problems with female friends in private is how affairs start. 2. If he is willing to discuss his marital problems he should be doing it with someone who is willing to help. 3. Going to family therapy ONE TIME is NOT going to accomplish anything... Why didn't you call him on that?
He's already admitted an EA without saying it.
a. He's talking in private b. He's talking about his marriage problems c. He's talking with a female
That's it in a nutshell... the "i love you's" and the "you are so sexy" isn't far behind that setup if it has'nt already come out of him already
He's HIDING the phone. That's a HUGE RED LIGHT
I would also call him on the privacy
If you intend on living in this home we need to stop hiding things from one another.
Also call him on talking about the marriage to his friends
It is embarassing to ME for you to discuss OUR marriage problems with YOUR FRIENDs.. and in PRIVATE so I don't even know what you are saying.
If you are giong to discuss the problem it should b with a licensed professional who hears MY thoguhts and feelings to so they can better HELP the situation.
What YOU are doing is more DAMAGE.
If you want to talk then talk to the FT. The reason it didn't help YOU is because YOU only went once and are giong to yoru FRIENDS INSTEAD.
Your friends aren't trained to HELP you, they are just giong to sympathize.
Your friends don't talk to ME for a COMPLETE picture.
You aren't doing the family therapy PROPERLY so you are just wasting money. Go and do it PROPERLY please.
