You're right, saving money isn't a good reason to move back in together, but sometimes it's necessary. I would rather have the only reason she wants to move back in is because she wants to reconcile. However, she's not ready to voice that to me. I believe you are spot on that she wants to explore the possibility but she doesn't want to 100% commit to it. The move back in gives us both a chance to get on more financially solid ground and at the same time see if we can move towards reconcilliation.
She is off on a business trip this week to Alaska. She actually slept here at my house last night since it would be easier logistically in getting her to the airport this morning. No intimacy other than a hug and kiss goodbye at the airport when I dropped her off.
I guess where I am at is that I have been in the fight to save the M for so long, that a little more time with her and I under one roof is worth the chance to permanently fix this M or permanently dissovle it.
