I get what you guys are saying. I stayed away all weekend boating, and she was sending me random text messages. That's not something she normaly does, so I knew she was just trying to see if I would respond. I actually ignored the messages and replied back the next morning.
When I went to the house to drop my boat off she told me that she hadn't yet made a decision. I told her that it's pretty simple. Either she wanted to be with me or she didn't, and if she really wanted to be with me she's make that decision. I told her that since she cant' then we need to continue doing what we're doing and I'll move on.
She said that she agreed to give me her decision by Monday and to wait. I let her know that I didn't expect her decision to change and that I will continue doing what I'm doing.
Last week she agreed that I would leave once she got home from work. Up until now, I was staying at the house for dinner. Yesterday my D4 asked if I was staying for dinner tomorrow, and before I could say anything my W told her yes.
This woman is very confused and loses control when she doesn't have the control.
I'm still pressing forward until this woman can show she's ready to commit to me and the R.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept