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Ddady,

What part of the story is making you think something is amiss?

You are a man... 'splain yo'self! LOL

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Thought I already had. All of his actions or lack there of just point to something off. BUT then again, maybe he's on here or something similar and working off the LBS playbook? ie - don't call back right away, be "busy" and unavailable.


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You know what really sucks?

When you really are busy, and your STBX is making things like picking up misc things and car registration materials difficult by insisting all communication go through email, and you are on call for the week at work, and so you really cannot set aside some time to "take" them their things with any confidence (could get called, right?), and they respond sarcastically to you saying you are busy.

That sucks. especially when they lived with you for years, so they ought to know you can't play by the ground rules they seem to be complicating everything with.


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Originally Posted By: dday101798
Thought I already had. All of his actions or lack there of just point to something off. BUT then again, maybe he's on here or something similar and working off the LBS playbook? ie - don't call back right away, be "busy" and unavailable.


I seriously doubt he's on here but that is a funny mental image.

Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
You know what really sucks?

When you really are busy, and your STBX is making things like picking up misc things and car registration materials difficult by insisting all communication go through email, and you are on call for the week at work, and so you really cannot set aside some time to "take" them their things with any confidence (could get called, right?), and they respond sarcastically to you saying you are busy.

That sucks. especially when they lived with you for years, so they ought to know you can't play by the ground rules they seem to be complicating everything with.


That does sound incredibly maddening.

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Well guys, it's been a long road. Told H last week that we should get a D. I know that I tried so this makes me happy. He told me I cannot give him what he needs and he wants a D.

Kapiche.

It's been therapeutic here and I wish the rest of you luck with your sitches. For me, it's time to move on. I still love him but I can't stay like this.

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