21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

I talked with her a little last night. She said she is going to feel on the spot with our Thursday marriage counsellor since I had gone to my individual appointments and she didn't. Two of them was their fault but one she deliberately missed so not sure why she fussing about it now. I said I am not going to hell and back if I have no chance with you. She said I never said that. I said are you leaning one way or another. She said she still doesn't know. She said she will not prolong this out to 6 months but the last 4 weeks have been hell. So I left it at that.


She came up stairs later and said I didn't mean to say anything that would upset you. I said it didn't. So I am in limbo for now.