I wasn't really being fair, was I? That was a blanket statement to mean that most guys get real giddy when a woman is looking their way, and take it to mean that they are desireable. But women do that too. I like it when men look at me too, I guess I just never thought of it much. It is flattering. So, sorry about the comment..not all men ooogle women nor do they have As. And there are plenty of men out there who are confident in who they are and don't need the validation from anyone else, much less women.
I sure hope your wife at least postpones the D for awhile so that you guys have a little bit longer to let it work itself out. I know that all the time in the world won't matter until THEY are ready to come back. We watch alot of movies and some of them address things like that. Coming back doesn't mean anything unless it is their choice and unless they are in the right spot.
Did you read Divorce Remedy? I used to do all that stuff you read about here..send links to articles I thought would interest him, read passages from books, send him love notes and long long letters about how my feelings and thoughts, and memories. It only pushed him farther away. I did give him the Divorce Remedy book to read, and he said he just may read it, as it looks easy to read. Do you think that is detrimental? to give him the book, I mean?
Warrior..have you figured out the detach thing? I am getting better with it, but still make mistakes.
Did you go to the Facebook website? There is a group of DB people there. Most have pics of the people we are talking to on this DB forum. If you create a FB profile and then go to the DB group, you can join the group and see what's going on over there, too. Did you post your own thread yet?
