I'm glad you talked to her about Retrouvaille. Yes, it is the weekend. And thousands of people with jobs, and kids, and all kinds of encumbrances find a way to take 48 hours and go. Because saving their marriage is worth it. I hope you will get her to reconsider. I met many people on our weekend who said that they went to a lot of trouble to attend, some flew in from other areas, some drove 10 hours to get there, some left important jobs. Making the marriage a priority over everything else is the first step to making it better.