BA - no prob! I'm due for a new thread anyhow. Also, I think many people are confused as to what piecing actually means! lol
Laura! OMG! I'm so proud of you. It is easier for me to consider D as we are already separated. However, your H has seemed really abusive and I'm so glad you are standing firm for yourself. I see a long and happy future with your son, your "new" home, and yourself with peace and respect. You deserve so much better.
I know how hard it is. Keep on focus. My H is now so "nice" and "civil." It's hard for me to not just feel relieved and take up hope again in our future. But I need to remember he could be being insincere for many reasons - sensing a fight and a D in me, glad to be away from me and therefor more patient, fulfilled with OW, whatever. I need to remember I still shake when I think of seeing him and that the niceness is new and probably only temporary. I need to continue to fight.
