I stayed at my brothers until she contacted me that she is home. She texts me first, 2 minutes later a phone call, tell her I am heading home will be there in 20, she asks where have I been? told her hanging out with friends and stuff. She gets quiet and doesnt believe me, she says your hesitating, I said well that is what I did today. In any case I get home, go straight to the kids tickling hugging them they are laughing and just too happy to see their dad, felt so good.
So the W is going in and out of our room, and I noticed her moving stuff(her clothes) upstairs to the guest room. So basically I didnt have to deal with the Storm, she realized pretty much what the"talk" was about, and instead of throwing a fit, moving out she is relocating to the guest room. She was putting her lingerie in a plastic bag, I asked her why she was doing that, she said I do not use it anymore. I said" well you might use it some day" and walked out. She sat there and I could tell she started to tear up. She has not been this calm in a while, I am not giving her any ammo to fire at me, it feels really good.
I am not going to say anything about her going to the guest room, just letting her do it. I will enjoy our big CA king bed and our Mastiff Layla will take her place next to me. She has been a better cuddler lately anyway. So I feel my manhood is in high gear and my balls are back in tact. This is only the beginning need to stay strong and keep up the PMA big time, I can tell its killing her, as well as all the questions. I know she thinks I am out and is jealous. All the support in the last few days has been so important, thank you guys will keep you updated.
I am not being mean or rude, I am talkative when she starts the talks but other than that I am to myself or playing reading to the kids. She is not going to get me warming up to her.