Happy belated anniversary, CL. Did you go out to dinner to celebrate? What did your wife think of the card? I am not on the computer as much since I don't have a computer at home, but I do want to keep up with your thread. It sounds like you are getting better about setting boundaries (like telling your wife she needs to have a female travel partner if she decides to go that way). I hope you can have a joint trip. Even if it's low key/low budget. Being together is critical to keep you moving forward I believe.