warrior..I am so sorry that you and your wife are going to go to court for a divorce in a few weeks. Do you think she'll go thru with it? You mentioned that you think she has been in MLC for about 3 years. I was thinking about that and then how long my H has been going thru this and I think it started about 2003 or so. It started very slowly and he just was enjoying the attention of other women at that point. But didn't do anything..at least not that I knew of. And to be fair, maybe this happens to all guys, I don't know. But it wasn't until about a year after we moved here..in about early 2007, that he started to think about having more kids for real and maybe doing something about it. When he had his A, (the one that I know of anyway), she was a co-worker and old enough not to want anymore kids..she had two already and they were getting ready to graduate from high school. Now, he seems to be looking for a younger woman so that he can have some kids with her.
We actually talked about his wanting more kids today. The subject came up when we were talking about my little grandson. He said that he still wanted to have more kids but realized that he was too old now and would just have to be content to wait until his daughter had kids so he could be a grandpa. Now, that is what he SAID, not sure if he really thinks that..and in keeping with all i'm learning here..I'm not going to dwell on it or let it ruin my day worrying about it. If he thinks he wants to find a younger woman and have more kids, then he will and there's nothing I can do anyway.
Anyway, I had a good day today. Actually a good weekend. I have been reading, goofing on the computer, looking for jobs, cleaning and all that good stuff. We went to a baseball game today, my H and I..it was fun. I didn't say anything when he oggled women. it was a beautiful day and I just enjoyed it!
Anyway, our situations do sound alot the same, Warrior. Can you say how old you are or maybe you don't want to say, that's ok too. I plan to go back and read my thread from the beginning. I need to refresh my memory for all that has been said. I hope both of us have the endings we are hoping for. I am praying for all of us here. It's nice that we all have each other.
