The OM called things off in May when I exposed the EA and had proof of what was going on.

I have been looking for a new FT, but as of right now she has no interest in going and is turned off to FT because of the one we used. I have my own separte IC.

The major concerns with her in the marriage were emotionally. That we weren't talking enough and she just wanted to go out and do things. We've been remodeling the house we just bought a year ago and took all of our time up.

As of this past Monday she told me she filed divorce papers and paid the sheriff and that I would be served soon. I haven't heard anything from the sheriff yet.

She is now in Ocean City with her 24 year old cousin now for 10 days. Her cousin is definitely not the best person to be with, but that has been her escape through all of this.

When we were working on the R a few weeks back communication improved between us and we started a date night each week and we had set plans days in advanced. Something out of the ordinary for me. She wanted set date nights to have something to look forward to and to be able to get all dressed up to go out. After 1 week she started iniating conversations with me, and started iniating plans. I was able to give her back rubs and foot rubs.

I really don't want her to leave but I believe she is going to.

I am going to write out our comments right now

Last edited by bigdgsr; 07/18/10 11:15 PM.
M- 28
W- 27
T- 6 years
M- 2 years
Bomb- 5/13/10
EA exposed- 5/30/10
Separate Rooms- 6/1/10
Divorce filed- 7/12/10
W Moved Out- 8/7/10