After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

SAAAAAWEEETT Allen.

That is AWESOME stuff there. Now I am going to memorize that and that will be my mantra. I will keep coming back to that there.

There IS another issue though.

When we got married, we BOTH said we didn't want children. About 2 years ago she started feeling like she did. About 1 year ago, I definitely started feeling like I did.

BOTH of us were to SCARED to talk to each other about it though, because we said when we first got married, we'd let the other person go if they wanted kids and not hold them back.

She feels like I would make a bad father. That I if couldn't take care of her, I couldn't take care of a child.

"I'd never bring a child into a marriage with you" ect ect.

I think this can be a MAJOR point for her in all this. The Facebook guy was a dad of 4, and is divorced and supporting them. She even commented on how "she loved how he plays dad".

MWD says to identify what was so great about the OP, and I think this can be a big one.

Should I maybe bring that fact up - about her wanting kinds - and seeing me as a bad father? Because a woman in "mother" mode won't look at a person the same way as maybe just a wife would.