Oh and she has a "good days" and "bad days" tally on our marker board
You are still spending too much over analyzing everything.
She could have herself on meds and is tracking how she is feeling.
My wife did something like this in her journal when she was trying to decide to stay married to me, or not. So maybe your wife IS conflicted.
Maybe she is taking Bean-O and tracking how that effects her gas. You just DON'T know.
Either way though, you are till worrying to much about her, what she is gonna do, that she might do x if you do y. It is much simpler than this. Do what you KNOW is right. Do not worry about trying to please, appease or manipulate because even if you win her back, you can not maintain operating under that kind of the stress.
Seriously, just be the best authentic you (thanks Dr. Phil) that you can be. The rest will take care of itself.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted