After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

We have a FC session tomorrow night and I am a little worried about it.

We are supposed to talk about the selling of the house. I know what my answer will be, but I wanted to be sure we discussed it in front of the FC. Sort of a "safe" place with an objective person there.

I am going to set a boundary and tell her there is no need to sell the house until the divorce papers are signed, and that I will not be forced out of my home. Plain and simple.

And I don't know what will happen with the other 59 minutes. I talked to our FC when she called to confirm our appointment, and even she sounded a little discouraged when I told her what was going on.

We have 59 minutes to discuss why I don't want to sell the house and why she does, and in her mind why "I can't let go".

Should I even let on that I want to save the marriage? I mean if I actually say that statement Allen wrote, then the FC is probably going to see no reason why we should see her anymore. That would just derail everything further.

And I don't get why my wife would buy a TON of groceries if she knew tomorrow I might say that I don't want to sell the house, and she would then move out.

Oh and she has a "good days" and "bad days" tally on our marker board. Apparently today was a bad day. So far it's even between the two. I just don't get her at ALL.

Anyone have any suggestions as to what to try and talk about in FC? I am pretty good and leading and getting to talk about what should be talked about, but I really am at a loss for this one.

I mean "I don't want to sell". Then what?