Please document that he took the money from your JOINT account. Depending on the laws in your state, he could be in big trouble.

About the paperwork, maybe a quick email to say,

H~

I noticed you did not leave the paperwork my lawyer requested. I need it by X date (choose a date before your actual appt.). You can either be a man of your word, or we can let our lawyers figure out how to get the information.

Shelby

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!