Par, there is a realization here that you desparately need to make. You can no longer DB her. You are already divorced. She married another man. No matter what you think of him, he is her husband now. He is probably fighting for her. Of course, she's lying to him about what she's telling you. YOU ARE THE OM in this sitch. This is hard to come to terms with, believe me, I know.
Block her number both for texts and calls. Block her emails. You have to maintain some distance. Go to a IC immediately on Monday. You need to be in counseling over this and may even need some AD's short term. This is what detachment is about. FOCUS ON YOU and only you. Go hit some balls, go out with a friend, take care of you!
