If she brings up why you are helping just tell her


I am cooperating because that's what I should be doing...
It's what we both should be doing

This house belongs to both of us and I am going to honour that


Something like that.

Don't tell her you are doing it for you.. it just validates her selfish behaviour...

WE can tell YOU that, but don't pass that on to her... She isn't educated to understand what that means properly and will misinterpret and abuse it.


Last edited by Allen A; 07/18/10 08:36 PM.