"Maria, I really dont know how I did those things...". I left it at that.
Kalni,
I have to admit I have not followed along on your sitch...Heck after the second year I barely followed anybody’s but my own.
But I think our spouses really did have some kind of out of body experience with the OP. Three years ago the woman I thought was my wife who’s naked pictures I found with the OM WAS not the woman I was with last night. Three years ago she told me that she was in love with him, did not know if she had a future with him (he’s married) And that she could NEVER ML to me again because it would not be the same. It would not be the same because when we did make love we both would be thinking about HIM. Last night I did NOT think about him at all and I don’t think she did either.
Someday I have questions for W about “what happened” but that is far into the future…Right now I feel like this is the first day of our new marriage. Right now we still have work to do but this was NO BABY step… All is right in the world again. As hard as it may be... (AND I WAS TOLD THIS MANY TIMES)..What happened … happened. Talking about it will not change it. I think the more you and I bring up the OP it just brings back memories to our spouses. I believe that they are trying to forget those memories so why should we remind them?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
