She is being civil now, and ONLY concentrating on getting the painting done to make the house easier to sell.
I just feel like the more I do around the house, the closer it gets me to having it ready to sell. And she knows at a certain point, the house will look immaculate, and will demand me to sell it.
Then when I say:
"I promised you I would these things, and I am keeping my promises NO MATTER what the circumstances. I didn't do them to sell the house, I did them for ME."
She will see that as clinging to the marriage. Or
"I'm glad you are making changes, but those changes are going to have to be for someone else you fall in love with, and not me".
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed