Offer to help... OR, if you think she's just going to snap start helping... FAR AWAY though... Go cut the lawn or something... Go buy a mower...
This is actually a good sign... WITHDRAWAL might very well be kicking in...
Work on my statement, you want it more concise than that... and you don't want to sound like you are insulting her... I don't think my quite does it, but its a good first draft.
She may just be reacting to all the work you did on the home... It's probably REALLY BUGGING her about cancelling the divorce now... I would not be surprised at all if that's what's going on in her head...
If she brings it up like "Don't think any of this makes a difference" or "I am still going through with the divorce" that tells you quite clearly whats on HER mind...
That's the thing QS... You don't bring up divorce, SHE keeps bringing it up...
I think its scaring the hell out of her right now...
