Divorce in 1 month Help with exposing please need

[Allen A]

I would rather you improve the marriage and make everyone happier, rather than running away and making your son confused and mierable

Anything like that.. the key is to keep the comments to one sentence if you can and to EXIT the convo after you throw it out there.. don't keep batting commentary back and forth like a tennis ball .. you want to come up with a good hard hitting comment and then get out of there.. FIRST... hang up or stop replying...

You don't want to reply with a smart ass comment to everything she ways...

I would suggest you go through a list of things she's thrown at you and practice comming up with one good hard hitting line for each...

You don't want to use them all, but you want to be good at coming up with that one good line whe you need it and quitting the convo...

THat's the one two punch...

Hit them with the truth and then exit the convo/hang up

[twolf]

Well im done im pushing for the divorce im setting up mediation. I have moved on, my year is about up and i dont love my stbxw any more. Thanks every one for the help you gave me the last few months.

I finally dont think about her.
I'm moving on to the next chapter of my life.
Twolf..........

[Allen A]

TW, why won't you wait until your WS actually DOES the divorce?

Why give up when she actually asked for MORE TIME?

That was HUGE man.. why give up?

[twolf]

Because i dont want her any more.

I dont want no part of her or her family.

I have awaken from the lies and bs , she is now living with the O/M and she makes me sick to look at.

I will be all right! tanks for the help Allen ..... I will stop by from time to time.

[Allen A]

Well, you have a son with her.. how are you going to manage that without looking at her?

[twolf]

WEll ive been in dark mode for a while now.

Ive gotten texts from stbxw about son gettin stung. Or the time i have with him.
My sister was in the hospital and my mom went to pick son up and told her about my sister.

I got a text from stbxw wy didnt you tell me?

I did not respond its really none of her buissness any more.

When i have son she does text me more to see how he is doing.

She still has not gotten us in to any more mediation classes and we only have three weeks till the divorce court date.

I have been putting a smile face on the end of my texts to her when i reply to hers

She has been saying stuff and acting like she does not now about the times for drop off and pick up and extra days.

I play it off like no big deal nothing to get mad at.


I dont know what to think or care about anymore with her.