Puppy - Thank you to responding to mny sitch. You are right. I did not expose, but I REALLY wanted to, but then I was sooo worried about everyone's reaction and what he would tell people to convince them that I was being irrational. I do have proof. I have emails between the tow of them and credit card receipts. I also have the personal knowledge of witnessing him being dropped off by her to our home when I was suppose to be out of town (I came home early than planned).
I know I am not prepared, and I do know that I will react.
BTW, H called me from Afghanistan yesterday (not sure if he thought about the fact that yesterday was our anniversary) and then again today. I kept the conversation calm and spoke only about the house and the things we had already agreed to take care of. It was as if he did not want to get off of the phone. We skyped today by the way and I had my video turned off and he said he wanted to see me.. Calling me babe and honey (when for the last few months, he has called me by my first name).
I know...still to emotionally attached to my H. I need to GAL. I want to go dark, just need some good advice on how to make going dark successful.
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
