Thanks DanF,

I just don't know how to see past all of this to maintain a civil R for our son. I get so angry that she's doing this and she expects me to run around smiling like nothing is wrong. I know that separation will do us some good. But until then right under my nose this is going on.

I know this is horrible to say but I pray that Karma comes back and bites her right in the A$$..... I know....petty... but OM can't be serious about starting a R with a woman who lives with her STBXH has a child and isn't even D yet. That's a lot of baggage to take on right away.....

Anyway, wasn't sure if anyone out there has had to deal with this and had any success while living together....


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA