Originally Posted By: nlg
feeling now like just throwing her to this guy and moving on…


NLG I am sorry.

Do what Puppy suggested.

Don't make any rash decisions but it is time for you to figure out what you will and won't do for your M.

There is a difference between moving on and moving FORWARD.

The latter being a process of focusing on yourself and healing.

IMO that process did not happen for you when you W decided to come back in your M.

It still feels like the old M to you and to her because it is.

Moving forward means making real changes for YOU.

If in the process your W comes back then you can decide whether that is what you want.

You got some thinking to do...


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am