It is normal for this to happen durince this situation, But teling her to get over it isn't helpful.
It means there's a marriage there that can be saved and she should explore that...
Good call on taking the pictures down... Her heads a mess right now and that may make the point to her that you aren't clinging desperately to a marriage and that you are OK if it goes either way.
I don't know about you being a storage facility for her... It sounds like an excuse to keep visiting you if you ask me...
