Hugs, Mystik.

I really like Bluestar's last post to you. There's a lot of great suggestions in there. After reading it, I couldn't think of a single thing to add.

Hang in there. It gets better.

M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3