Thank you Allen. I love your point about maturity in crisis. That's exactly what H doesn't have right now. In fact, he's acting like a teenage boy!
I am getting ready to file for divorce in order to be able to enforce H not exposing DD to OW. Puppy, if you're around, would you mind sharing what (if anything) you told your W about filing?
I think filing might tell my H that I'm 100% done - but really, it means that I'm 100% done with allowing him to expose dd to OW and engage in reckless behavior at our expense. L thinks I can get court orders enforcing this if need be . . .
