Ladies, Yes it is par for the course of the mlcer to look at his/her kids as those kids or the lbs' kids. You have to remember that they've gone back in time and in their crazy little minds, we are not part of their lives now, so they detach we become that person w/those kids.
Let it roll off your back...they won't remember half of what they've said if they ever wake up.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
