And you know, I think there is an energy you turn on when you're hungry for that . . . as soon as I started wondering and thinking about whether I could, boom! it's like guys were looking left and right.
Ah-hah! Had this EXACT same experience last week. Felt like I'd suddenly turned into Megan Fox or something! VERY weird!
Originally Posted By: MelodyJ
I think while securely married, I just stopped giving off that energy. Wonder if I stopped giving it off for my H too and that was the problem. Years later . . . its turned off just due to life and the rush and pace of maintaing home, jobs, etc. And yeah, it takes discipline not to use it to get a quick fix for the emotional needs when H is clearly wayward and having those needs met elsewhere.
I agree with ALL of this, particularly the last sentence. It's hard to get hit on by a bunch of guys only to be ignored or rejected by your husband. Easy out, unfortunately...
