I don't disagree at all. I am trying to think with my head as much as possible and not my emotions.

Did she exhibit signs of hard withdrawal? I don't know because for the last year we have not been living together. I do know that she ended up going to see a psychiatrist and was prescribed and anti depressant (Zoloft) for several months. I know at the time she wasn't depressed because she wasn't living with me that is for sure, so I suppose it could have been due to OM withdrawal and things not working out like she thought they would.

Once she moves back in, my guard will be up and I am pretty good at identifying red flags (I just haven't always acted right away on them). In that regard, this time will be different.

BA