No. I just don't believe it I guess. I use to see it in her eyes when she said it in the past. This was a very withdrawn ILY during an intimate moment...
I can see why she has told you that nothing she ever did was ever good enough.(she seems to have been correct about that assessment) Now she isn't reconciling with you or making love with you correctly. Now that isn't good enough. She isn't saying it in the right way for you. When she WAS saying it with meaning, then THAT wasn't good enough for you and you beat her down emotionally until she DID stop meaning it and even stopped saying it. Now of course she isn't reconciling int the correct way for you. (when in FACT she is moving foward wonderfully)
I can sure see why she feels the way she has begun to feel. Some people really are impossible to please. I have a suspicion you ARE one of those people. It is next to impossible for someon like her to make you happy. You will do whatever it takes to bring her down to your unhappiness level. Before you did it in a different way than you are now. Now you have found a new way. You have tried to convince her you have changed, but deep inside you are still unhappy with her and with yourself and refuse to be a happy man. Total refusal. Now you are only using a different approach disguised under Divorce Busting mixed in a little.
You weren't happy before she wanted out, you weren't happy when she told you she was done, you aren't happy now..
The common demonimator here is you and unhappiness. This is really more about YOU than about her. I will say it one more time and hopefully the light bulb will go off in your head..
LEARN TO BE A HAPPY MAN.. Don't gloss over that.. Do it.
