So, you're going by what a known LIAR has told you.
That's obviously your choice, and I was only chiming in because you said it would be easier on you if you knew it started earlier. I'm telling you, after studying literally thousands of affairs the past six years: I'd be STUNNED if his infidelity didn't start sooner, either with this OW or with someone else, based on what you've told us about his behavior.
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I just feel like if there were more he'd tell me if only to make it easier on him, because then I'd take care of the whole breakup for him instead of making him be the one to end it.
You're free to FEEL that way, Antonia, but you'd be better off to study MLC and infidelity, and go by what you OBSERVE about their FACTS, rather than go by your FEELINGS. If you do, you'll see that this is pretty much standard "script."
