Changed the thread name since Hope4Luv already had this title. Anyway Making Progress seems to fit just as well.
So in answer to your question Cadet - I don't know exactly when she stopped seeing the OM but to my knowledge - and I stopped snooping long ago because I found it to be a waste of my energy and time - it has been months since she has been in contact with him.
We are spending more time together, part of that is in anticipation of her moving back in, but that again is currently under the assumption of her maintaining a roommate status - and a result of helping us both financially. That being said, there is more affection lately than has been since the bomb. I am trying not to be too impatient, but it has been over 2 years since we started this process.