CH, Don't be discouraged by a lack of responses. Sometimes, as the old saying goes, "it is better to be quite and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt." Everyone here is supporting you in their own, sometimes quiet way.
With me, it seems to be more the differences between men and women. While I see similarites in some MLC actions, they are often so different from what I see in myself as a wife of twenty years . . .well, they don't sound like people I'd stop and talk to in Wal-Mart. I know that is an unfair judgement. I more often than not demonize my husband on here, as it's a demon I'm dealing with at the moment. There doesn't seem to be any way to compare him with the man I fell in love with and raised our family with.
You seem to have a very, very close relationship with God. I wish mine were closer. In your posts, you seem to have determined your path through God without hesitation. I do believe in letting go and letting God, and that is all most of us can do, other than handle our own emotional ups & downs.
Just keep working on yourself. Don't forget this is a journey/test of God's making for you as well as your wife. Ponder the unponderables.
