CH, Of course I have been reading your thread. Your thread is too close to what my life is. Your wife says a lot of the same things mine does. This whole thing that they go through is more than creepy. If your are like me, you feel like you are in the middle of the twilight zone. I am going through the same stuff. Timing of where your sitch when filed etc, is much like mine. My wife is still in there though. The alien she became is just unbelievable. I keep seeing over and over that they have to crash before they figure it out. Don't really like that option. Don't have much choice. So I keep working on myself to make sure that however this goes I can move on.