Lotus, bless your heart! I'm so glad you are not holding your tongue. I like straightforward feedback, especially in my tendency to fall into denial around my relationship with H. I really needed your words of encouragement tonight. Iwas feeling really down. Thank you.
So that's one vote for moving on sooner rather than later. And I can do them on my terms. With a fight. But perhaps it's time I finally fought instead of being a doormat.
