That's a good point. He has made progress and continues to make progress. I was so annoyed by the non-commitment thing, I had almost blocked out the one important thing he did say. When saying why he could commit he said "but I do love you and I do love S". Major for him - I haven't head the "L" word in over 2 years. Usually, it's "I care for you but...". Yes, it's not ILY, but it is a step. Also, he said that no matter what happens, he'll take care of me and he'll take care of S financially (big step, even just to say b/c of his previous threat of if I file for child support, he would file for alimony. L completely shot that down as impossible, but that was his attitude).
Ok, I did something I was trying to avoid - I just checked the phone records. I needed to know how naive I was being. I'm a fool for thinking for even one moment that anything had changed. Still talking/texting with OW3 with a furry! Sigh... I'm not realy affected by it b/c deep down I already new, but I needed to see that. Time to get my butt into gear and set and keep those boundaries! It's hard b/c he is sucha good talker, but I just need to keep reminding myself that I don't deserve that kind of treatment. What a jerk!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
