Exposed finally,,limbo land

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Howdy all. So she did give me the papers as said above and I did sign the acceptance form after she signed mine about DD’s. I probably did everything wrong I could’ve that night. I made her come down to discuss it, which she didn’t want to do, but otherwise I no signy form. I asked,’ separation in one hand, D in other, how could D ever be the better option?’. She just said,’ We separated before, I don’t want it again. I want a D.’ She repeated the ‘you ruined my relationship with my dad’ line about 10 times, but said it was not because I told him about the A, but because I told him about our debt problems, and she thinks he thinks it’s her poor shopping habits, etc. Oh well, just told him the truth again.

Three things I made her confirm before I signed it:
1. DD’s custody schedule, and to make sure she had D14 stay at my house on my nights.
2. That her paycheck would continue to go into our account until we could square away our finances.
3. The DD’s/OM no contact letter.

She was really pissed off, and refused to sign letter the first time I presented it, but then signed it, but I’m sure she will ignore it.

5pm yesterday girls are with me, and she TM,’OM and his son are coming over for dinner. Don’t let DD’s come up to my place’. I was pissed, and we argued about it in TM(I will stop this, it sucky way to communicate), I said when(at 5:31), and she responded 5:30. So I took DD’s out to dinner, and kept them away from home for a couple of hours. D14 needed clothes at W place, W assured me OM left, I let D14 go, and she stayed the night with a lame excuse, that both of them put together. I’m hoping she was telling the truth about OM, but I doubt it.

FIL called me this morning out of the blue, and wanted to do something with DD’s and me, so we went to a local community show/fair. It was cool, and it will get back to W and screw her into the ground, once again - oh well, he asked to come, we didn’t do it on purpose.

D14 is bored off her butt, but she would be the same up at W’s, she just is drawn to the secrecy of the A, but I’m not going to give ground on that, because even though D14 thinks it’s no big deal, she doesn’t realize the impact the A is going to have on her over the years, and the less she knows, the better.

Thanks for listening.