What happened to the OM? How do you know that you are now not the OM? Take it slow until you find out these answers.
The OM made the decision to stay with his family. It is my belief that my W was just a fling for him since they were both living overseas away from families. She fell for him, he fell for the sex. A bit sad if you ask me. Which makes me really question to whole idea of really trying to make this work - but it's tough to throw 16 years of history together away, even if she went batchitt crazy.
