I'm kind of unclear on why you don't see filing for primary custody as an option? So themselves can live with you where your job market is best and visit STBX for two months in the summer?
Is Cali that tilted in favor of Sacred Motherhood that you don't even think it's worth trying?
This was my question as well. Even if Virginia isn't the fanciest of these here 50 states, I'm a thinkin' that they still have those day care-thingamajigs. Or nannies.
It could be done, right? I was the stay-at-homer in my sitch for a few years, I still have an income just 1/5 of my xH's and I got primary custody...made sense because he travels a solid 100 days plus per year. I have the more reliable schedule and parenting history, so they live with me more than with him...
