There are positives, but you take them as negatives :
1. Your wife wont' leave you alone - She really wants to attach to you and interact... Yes its abusive, but the point is her attachment to you IS there, its clear as the sun. 2. She's eager to sell the house, which again means that SOMETHING is NAGGING at her... It's her attachment to you again... It's bugging her and she is having trouble fighting it OFF... And I think the home improvements you are diong is making it nag at her even more. 3. The simple fact that she IS such a scatter... She's all over the place right now wich again tells me there are some very deep feelings there.
How many damn times does she have to say "I'm done", "we're over", "we are getting a divorce" etc...
QS, methinks she dost protest too much...
If you aren't familiar with Julius Caesar that means she's trying too hard to convince herself...
Which means there IS a voice in her head telling her to STOP this nonsense and start playing nice...
How long did she give you on Fri before she confronted you about selling? Minutes? Hours?
I know you were out... from teh time you were avaiilable HOW LONG did she WAIT before charging up to interact with you?