Wow! That is alot. I envy your strength that you were able to stand up to H like you did. He was doing exactly what you said he was - sending that card to try to hold on to you and get back to the way things were before and being an H when he wants to be. If it was other than that, you gave him the chance to say otherwise - anything otherwise about saving the M - yet he didn't. I'm sure it's hard to tell the man you spent you're life with to leave you alone, but you're right, this is his choice.
I am actually surprised H followed thru on both days with S. I thought for sure he would flake out. I am glad he is actually trying to be a father and hope that continues. How does S seem to be taking it? Is he enjoying the H time? And how are you handling having S away? To me, I know I would enjoy some me time, but would miss S like crazy. I don't know how I'm going to handle that someday.
Well just keep being strong. It's not an easy path to take, but you're definitely taking control of your life now. I hope you are enjoying the time to yourself today.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
