Well this morning I got up early and went to get the boys Doughnuts for breakfast. Then went straight outside and started working on rewiring my phone lines. They have been messes up for a couple of weeks. Ma Bell said it's not their line it's mine. Saw W around 9:30. She told S9 how nice his trophy is. Said good morning and asked how the work was going outside. I am much better today. I made small talk and went back to it.
Later, she told me she thought it'd be fun to do something as a family later. I said sure. Syne I needed to just go to sleep earlier last night. Don't know what time she rolled in. I woke up briefly @ 0245 and she was stll out.
This whole thing is messed up. But I don't want to give up. Yet.
Cheers.
Goodman,
There are really only two approaches that I've ever seen work here, and I've been here for over six years and 15,000 posts, studying literally THOUSANDS of affairs. They are:
- Allen A's tough, "affair-busting" methods;
- Robx's/Gucci's "let them go" method.
If there is no infidelity, Coach's approach works best, in my opinion.
NONE of these methods include small talk, spooning, and accepting the first invite your wayward wife throws your way.
Please go back and re-read what Coach, Sandi and Robx have posted to you above. You need to pick ONE of these two firm approaches, and start it like YESTERDAY.
